He aquí algunas características de una pareja harmonizándose:
No hay nada más valioso del q darse uno a respetar, cada quien con su dignidad de honra.
Y tener un intercambio sano.
El saber disfrutar de la compañía para trabajar juntos y cosechar buenos frutos.
Una pareja se forma.
Jalar parejo con fuerza de voluntad.
Mantener honestidad.
Abrir comunicación.
Cultivar el valor de enfrentar a viejos temores de generaciones largas.
Enseñar reciprocidad.
Apapacharnos.
Guardar nuestra palabra como preciosa piedra de jade.
Embrace confianza.
Pedir permiso para entrar a nuestros cuerposcorazonesmentesespíritus.
Balance independent interdependence.
Push each others thinking, creatively.
Agree to disagree.
Be adventurous.
Enjoy playful sex, serious sex, dirty sex, workout sex, stress-relief sex, making-babies sex, looove-making sex, makeup sex, soft sex, quicky sex, hard sex, gettinglost sex...
We r the keepers of our own health.
We r the keepers of our own happiness.
Keep touch alive.
Dance like no one is watching.
And kindness
And consideration of each other's feelings.
Di no a la represión emocional.
Choose words wisely.
Love every piece of our bodies and its changes over time.
Journey into each others eyes.
Commit to rebuild oneself-families-communities.
Establish a close relationship to each others familias.
Operate on ambiguous gender roles.
Tolerancia.
Exercise emotional intelligence.
Cultivate mind body heart spirit intimacy.
Engage in dialectical praxis* and critical thinking.
Maintain humor alive.
*create so that we do not perish.
*create so that we do not perish.
*create so that we do not perish.
*create so that we do not perish.
Saber apreciarnos.
Saber valorarnos.
Have a deep sense of safety wo fear at each others side.
Demonstrate compassion for one another.
Compromises along the way.
Best friends.
Grow our own food together.
Cook for each other.
For our sustenance.
Organize!
There r some Non-Negotiables:
Like alcohol and substance abuse
Like closed to open communication
Dishonesty
Verbally and physically abusive
Controlling
Manipulative
Jealousy
Untreated disease of the mind heart body spirit
Explosive tempers
Addictive behaviors
Eso no se
Tolera. Eso no es el
Darnos a respetar.
Relationship development involves three general steps that exist simultaneously, yet each is highlighted at different stages in the growth of compañerismo:
One) A relationship begins w recognizing each others intellectual and creative contributions to the world... We share our worldviews, ideas, thoughts, experiences, perspectives,...Getting to know u's happens over time yet it is the very first mind FOCUS of beginning a shared path....
Two) then a heart/Liver center of cariño, cuidado, apapachos, fears, risk-taking, opening up to dive into the abyss wo fear, no matter the outcome. Savoring the flora and fauna along the journey downwards into the depths of existence. and truly appreciate the present moments spent w one another, feeding from each others medicina. :||:
and finally, Three). a connection w passion, love, sex, fire in the safest of spaces. Con permiso. Con sorpresa. Con respeto. Con cariño. Con delicadeza y fuerza. Creating together. Camouflaging into the coral reefs juntos and hiding until our skin becomes wrinkled in bliss, welcoming the challenges and planning for the future.
A relationship is an investment. Como a un arbol se le tiene q regar, calentar, cantar, apodar y usar sus frutos... Asi a una pareja. We can't expect it to sit there and be healthy and productive wo interacting w it or feeding it time, understanding, compassion. A virtual friendship can be kept despite the distance pero a friendship and companionship must be valued by prioritizing a commitment of physical time and energy as much as it is worth. If it is valued more by one than the other, it will not work.
The abyss is a space where few dare to enter because it has the capacity to compress our capillaries to their demise and shatter our bones to ground marrow under extreme pressure. The abyss has the capacity to inflict the highest levels of suffering imaginable.
Yet having the courage to enter the deep crevices of underground caves, unguarded, takes a level of consciousness that thrives from an ecology of intuitive reflections. Tenacity. Falling in love w life, connecting to the elements that r not separate from our physiological structure. Tons of reading. Risk-taking. All of the below and above, descending and ascending, unscathed.
And so it is said that coupling is one of the greatest pleasures and challenges in life.
Emparejando is revered with high esteem and tinged with awe, a sacred union that lives all complexities.
Adelante.
Y con respeto.
nimitztlazohcamati.
Ometeotl
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